It is easy for Christians to feel distant from God and overwhelmed with the stresses of daily life. It does not work for us to simply reproach ourselves for worrying and then muscle forward with a forced smile. Instead of exhorting ourselves to “walk in the Spirit,” I recommend that we resort to God through small prayers throughout the day. All the experiences we have are of interest to God, so we can talk to him about what is going on with us. This spontaneous prayer while in the midst of appointments and tasks of our day can do much for us to experience a sense of God’s nearness to us and close involvement with our daily life.
These so-called small prayers (Richard Foster) are effective to momentarily reach for God and ask for his involvement with us. Small, momentary prayer is to tell God what is going on with us at different moments throughout the day: “God, I’m feeling disconnected from you right now ... I’m enjoying this pizza right now ... I don’t know how I’m going to make it through this day feeling so tired … What are you even doing in my life right now? ... I am discouraged and I have so little to look forward to today …” This is about being honest with God in a text-message way instead of a religious and formal address.
We can also ask God to provide motivation and enthusiasm for activity that we just don’t want to do: “Give me desire to do this assignment ... I don’t want to fold this laundry … my kids want to stay at the beach for another two hours, but I’m exhausted—help me to be here for them! … I am willing to be made more willing for the stuff you want for me ... I can’t get to sleep but I need to sleep … Help me, Jesus!” By these small prayers, we can find God drawing near to us as closely involved in our lives.
God is providentially involved and attentive to our daily lives already; he invites us to cast all our cares upon him as we face small and large concerns in daily life (1 Peter 5:7). These small prayers can become a reflex and habit to “practice the presence of God with us” (Brother Lawrence).
The privilege we have to talk to God about everything that is going on with us is staggering. To consider it rationally just seems crazy—the Master of the Universe is more attentive and available to me than anyone else in my life. He gives his direct attention to me whenever I turn to him!